Why Choose Life Story Interviews Instead of a Friend or Family Member?

Why Choose Life Story Interviews Instead of a Friend or Family Member?

When it comes to recording a life story, it’s natural to think,
“Why hire someone when my spouse, child, or friend could just sit me down with their phone and ask me some questions?”

And in truth any attempt to preserve memories is beautiful and meaningful. But when the goal is to create a keepsake that truly honors someone’s story in a way that’s authentic, emotional, and professionally preserved, there are several powerful reasons why working with Life Story Interviews makes all the difference.

1. We’re a Neutral Party and That Matters

Telling your life story can be deeply personal. Some memories come with laughter, others with vulnerability, regret, or even grief. And often, the presence of a family member asking the questions can create an unspoken pressure to filter what you share.

There are things you might not feel comfortable expressing in front of your adult children or spouse. Not because they’ve done anything wrong but because it’s hard to be completely open with people you’ve spent a lifetime protecting, supporting, or shielding.

With a compassionate third-party interviewer, you have the emotional space to reflect freely and say things you might not otherwise say. And in that openness, the most powerful moments emerge genuine insight, clarity, gratitude, and meaning.

2. We Ask the Right Questions (and Know How to Listen)

A life story interview isn’t just a list of questions it’s a guided journey. At Life Story Interviews, we’ve spent years crafting thoughtful prompts that bring out the richness of someone’s experience. We know how to follow emotional threads, recognize when to pause, and gently encourage a deeper dive when someone shares something important.

Family members might skip over the mundane (or the messy), but we know that some of the most meaningful stories live in the details. Our structured yet conversational format creates a safe space that leads to authentic storytelling not just reciting facts, but sharing what it felt like to live them.

3. It’s Easier to Open Up When You’re Not Being Filmed by a Loved One

Let’s be honest being on camera is already a little nerve-wracking for most people. Now imagine being interviewed on camera by your child, your spouse, or your best friend. Many people naturally become guarded, overly formal, or even shut down.

With our experience and calming approach, we make it easy for people to be themselves. We focus on making the process relaxed, respectful, and even enjoyable. And the result is a video that feels natural something that truly captures who the person is, not just what they say.

4. Professional Quality = Something You’ll Be Proud to Share

An interview filmed on a phone by a well-meaning family member is a beautiful gesture but may not result in a video you feel confident sharing with future generations.

Our Life Story Interview Packages include:

  • A professionally edited video (approx. 30–60 minutes) set to music
  • A scanned slideshow of meaningful photos
  • A full transcription of the interview in print
  • All files prepared for easy download and sharing

The final result is polished, timeless, and something your family will treasure for decades to come. It’s not just a video it’s a legacy keepsake.

5. You Deserve to Be Heard in a Space That’s Just for You

Your life is full of stories and they all deserve space. Our interviews give you that space, uninterrupted and judgment-free.

You can speak freely about your childhood, your choices, your turning points, your regrets, your values, and your hopes for the future. You can laugh, cry, remember, reflect, and be fully yourself.

And when you do, the people who love you most will see you not just as “Mom” or “Dad” or “Grandpa” but as the vibrant, multi-faceted human being you are.

The Bottom Line

Your story is too important to be rushed, filtered, or forgotten. While filming with a friend or loved one may sound simple, what you gain from a Life Story Interview is clarity, confidence, connection, and quality.

Whether you're recording your journey for your children, grandchildren, or simply for yourself, we’re here to help you do it with care, professionalism, and heart.  

I'm Kristen Potter, founder of Life Story Interviews and I'm here to help you tell your story!

🎥 Want to learn more?
Visit www.LifeStoryInterviews.biz or book your free 15-minute call to see how we can help preserve your story beautifully.

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